It's a decision

I used to think that love is something you don't have control with.It happens the less time you expect it. And when it happens, you can never teach your foolish heart whom to love and when to love.

But then lately, I came realize, that was not love at all. That was simply an affection, a simple admiration. Love is more than that. That even a single word like "affection" or "admiration" is not enough to describe it. They are but the tip of the iceberg. It's like tasting a new dish. 

You admire it based from your own taste standard. But loving the dish means knowing how to cook the dish and sharing the dish with other people while you continue to love and enjoy it.

Remember, it was never the option that matters, it was the decision. And this decision is not just one time process, it is but a lifetime. Every single day, you decide to love the person. Every single day, you decide to complete that person. Every single day, you decide to stay with that person. Because love is a decision.